I loved You Were Never Really Here (it was my favorite film at Sundance in 2018) so I was very eager to see Lynne Ramsay's latest, Die My Love, at the Broadway last night and I was blown away by Jennifer Lawrence's committed performance. Jackson (Robert Pattinson) and Grace (Lawrence) relocate from New York City to a small town in rural Montana after he inherits his uncle's rundown farmhouse. A static opening shot from within the house makes it obvious that he is more excited about the move than she is. After she gives birth and he takes a job working out of town for long periods of time, she is isolated, bored, and unable to write (her profession). She is also extremely frustrated by the lack of physical intimacy with Jackson since the birth of the baby, especially when she comes to suspect that he is sleeping with other women on the road, and she begins acting more and more erratically (she literally claws at the walls). Jackson becomes increasingly desperate to help her get better but he is largely ineffective (the more he tries to "fix her" the worse her behavior becomes) and she ultimately feels like he doesn't see her which signals the end of their relationship. What I really liked about this movie is the immersive way that Grace's descent into madness is portrayed. It is visceral and disjointed and it is often difficult to determine if what is happening is real or just inside her head (especially the frequent appearance of man on a motorcycle played by LaKeith Stanfield). I have seen this criticized for lacking character development but, in my opinion, that is exactly the point because Grace does not have an identity beyond the one created for her by Jackson (so much of what she does is only inappropriate because Jackson thinks it is) and she eventually loses herself. I have also seen criticism for the repetition of the same dynamic between Jackson and Grace over and over but, as someone who suffers from depression, it felt very authentic to me because these episodes often become a never ending spiral in which you become trapped. Lawrence gives an absolutely brilliant physical performance, the best of her career, that perfectly captures Grace's unpredictability. From one moment to the next I never knew what she was going to do or how she was going to respond and I loved the scenes in which Grace reacts to people without a filter (especially the cashier). Pattinson does a great job portraying Jackson's early indifference and later desperation and I enjoyed Sissy Spacek as Pam, Jackson's mother, because she is an interesting foil to Grace (she is the only character who sees what is really happening to her). I loved the use of a 4:3 aspect ratio to show Grace's claustrophobia as well as an incredibly chaotic soundtrack to represent Grace's state of mind (the scene with Toni Basil's "Hey Mickey" on repeat is hilarious). I really liked this but a lot of people might find it difficult to watch.
Note: I have always wanted to tell cashiers to stop talking to me!


















