Christmas 2021

Christmas was a little bit subdued this year because we were missing the one member of our family who loved Christmas the most and it wasn't the same without him.  We all had fewer presents because we didn't have as much free time to prepare but we were all very happy to be together and spent a lot of time reminiscing about past Christmases.

We really enjoyed having Thanksgiving dinner from Cracker Barrel this year so we decided to do it again for Christmas dinner.  This time we chose Olive Garden and it was delicious!  Later in the evening we played Shanghai rummy again (we love playing cards).  This time Kristine won (I have had a streak of bad luck).  It ended up being a really nice day.

I hope you were able to have a wonderful Christmas with the ones you love.

Christmas Eve 2021

We have a tradition of opening one present each on Christmas Eve and it is always new pajamas.  My Mom was pretty excited about her pajamas but Sean was absolutely thrilled because his have the Flash (his favorite comic book character) on them.  After opening presents, we once again played Shanghai rummy (and ate so many treats).  It got pretty boisterous and at one point we were all laughing so hard we couldn't breathe.  It felt really good because we haven't had many opportunities to laugh for the past few months.  Trent beat all of us again but we have all vowed that he is going down when we play again tonight!

The Matrix Resurrections

Yesterday afternoon I went with Kristine, Trent, Tashena, and Sean to see The Matrix Resurrections and it was so much fun to see it with my family.  I am a big fan of this franchise (I recently watched all three movies again) so I was really looking forward to this installment and I absolutely loved it!  Within the present-day iteration of the Matrix, Thomas Anderson (Keanu Reeves) is a successful video game programmer who has difficulty separating his dreams from reality.  He is inexplicably drawn to a woman named Tiffany (Carrie-Anne Moss), a married mother of three who has an affinity for motorcycles, and has an antagonistic relationship with his business partner Smith (Jonathan Groff).  His Analyst (Neil Patrick Harris) prescribes blue pills to keep him sane but he eventually stops taking them and inadvertently creates a modal with a program embodying Morpheus (Yahya Abdul-Mateen II).  Bugs (Jessica Henwick), a human outside the Matrix and the captain of the Mnemosyne, discovers this modal and realizes that Neo is still alive.  With the help of Morpheus, she extracts him from the Matrix and takes him to Io, the new human headquarters, where he meets Niobe (Jada Pinckett-Smith) and the sentient program Sati (Priyanka Chopra Jonas) who tell him what has happened since the Machine War ended sixty years ago.  As he struggles to assimilate within his new environment, he requests permission to extract Trinity but this request is denied.  Bugs and her crew go rogue in order to assist him but first he must confront several exile programs, including the Merovingian (Lambert Wilson), Agent Smith, and the Analyst (in some epic action sequences that are exciting even though they don't quite live up to those in the original).  I loved the winking self-awareness about this specific franchise (and of sequels in general) and I loved all of the nostalgia.  I was giggling out loud with every reference, call-back, and revelation.  I also loved the relationship between Neo and Trinity (Reeves and Moss give fantastic performances and they still have so much chemistry) and the meaning it gives to the notion of being the "One."  Finally, I loved the concept of free will and how it is used in Trinity's character arc as well as the implication of it when the swarm is used during the final battle within the Matrix.  It should be noted that Sean, who is as big a fan of the franchise as I am, also loved it (we spent quite a bit of time discussing it afterwards and have plans to see it again); Kristine and Trent, who are casual fans, liked it and thought it was very clever; and Tashena, who hasn't seen any of the movies in the franchise, was totally confused and fell asleep.  You should probably use these reactions as a guide in deciding if you want to see it but I highly recommend it!

Gingerbread Houses 2021

One of my family's favorite Christmas traditions is making gingerbread houses and, since we all needed a bit of Christmas cheer yesterday, we had our annual party and then played Shanghai rummy.

We had a lot of fun and, as always, we ate as much candy as we used on our houses!

Marilyn's house

My house

Tashena's house

Sean's house

I think they turned out pretty good this year!

After we made our gingerbread houses, Kristine and Trent joined us for Shanghai rummy.  It honestly felt good to relax a little bit after such a difficult month.  Trent won but the rest of us declared a rematch tonight!

Remembering My Dad

My Dad passed away peacefully at home surrounded by his family last Wednesday after a courageous battle with multiple medical issues.  It is really difficult to lose your Dad but it is comforting to know that he is free from pain.  We held a visitation for family and friends last night and hearing so many lovely things about my Dad was also very comforting.

It was my Dad's wish to be cremated and we had a dear family friend make his urn.  We asked for the flowers to be red and white to honor his Canadian roots.

We had a display of pictures of when he was young (and very handsome) as well as pictures of him playing Santa Claus.  We also displayed all of his hockey jerseys.

We were so worried about how my Mom would handle seeing so many people, which can be overwhelming for her, but she did really well.  She was able to visit with most of her siblings as well as her cousin (pictured above) and she was able to recognize many neighbors and friends.

I was very touched by how many people came and I wish that I had been able to get more pictures.  The only time I lost my composure was when friends would talk about their memories of watching hockey with my Dad!

I am so happy that my niece Tashena was able to come home from college to be with us and I can't believe how handsome my nephew Sean looked (he was wearing my Dad's watch).

I want to thank everyone who came to the visitation because it really was wonderful to see and talk to all of you about my Dad.